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How To Get Your Flirt On And Be Sucessful

December 1, 2010 by Eaglecorps911

By Jet Lu
“Dammit. That guy took my girl.” Sound familiar to you? What? You say this a lot? You’re pathetic. Did you even try flirting with the girl? You did?! Then that means there is a pretty good chance that you don’t know how to flirt or you just suck at it.
Don’t tell me that asking about how she did on her test was flirting. That’s called socializing. When you socialize, you make friendly conversation. All humans do it. In fact, I once socialized with a drunk taxi driver I had. Does that mean I was flirting with her? Hell no. I was bored and she was interesting to talk to.
More likely than not, the girl you were attempting to flirt with saw it the same way. And this is very important that you MEN try and understand this. GIRLS BELIEVE IN HAVING FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX AND LEAVING IT AT THAT.
Unless you understand the concept of flirting; you are going to continue to fail at life and you will always be stuck as “the friend” unless your god of choice decides to intervene and throw someone on your plate. Now here are the major points in flirting,
1. HAVE A GOAL OTHER THAN THE GIRL-Girls like a man on a mission. (For some reason that’s uber sexy to them. Go figure.) Also it’s better to go out and set big goals for yourself to begin with.
2. CONFIDENCE-Nothing is more sexy than confidence. A girl loves it when their man is sure of himself. THIS is one of the most important things you can ever have! Without confidence, a girl won’t even give you a second look of lust because you’re so pathetic (if you must, use fake confidence. That’s how I roll.)
3. KNOW YOUR TARGET- if you are going for a shy girl, I don’t think you would go up to her and start attempting to be the class badass. You’ll most likely scare her away. It’s important to try and find out if she is compatible with you in the first place. You don’t want to waste any flirt energy on anyone useless, taken, not your sexual orientation,or someone you are not compatible with.
4. TIMING TIMING TIMING- I really can’t emphasize this point enough. Timing is key. In fact, that’s one of the most important things to consider when you are flirting. You have to look at the situation around you, judge if it’s the appropriate setting, see if she’s in the mood to flirt, and most importantly, you have to say the right things at the right time. There is no real “how to,” but this is something you hone with practice. So just experiment and be prepared for a bad rep.
5. CONFIDENCE, CONFIDENCE, AND CONFIDENCE!
Yeah, it’s that important. You can be the biggest geek on the planet, wear suspenders and laugh like Steve Urkel. If you make yourself seem confident enough, THE GIRLS WILL COME TO YOU. Or you can try these:
1. Start working out. Having a decently toned body and maybe a four-pack does your image wonders. And it’s good for you too.
2. Pick up a “sexy” hobby : skateboarding, playing guitar (Guitar Hero and RockBand do not count.), martial arts, Cooking/baking, singing, playing an instrument, TRY TO AVOID VIDEO GAMES, and most important, learn how to dance. You want your girls to be able to move her body so she wants you to move your body too.
3. Change your wardrobe and hairdo. As shallow as it is, these two categories make a man.
And if what I told you failed, there’s always askmen.com.

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